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I want to be honest, I have 2 children out of wedlock and they both have the same father. I disobeyed God twice and the father of my children is wayward. At first we had genuinly planned to do God's will, but everyone was fighting us, exspecially his family.
We are not together and he is lost once more with no godly guidance. He has never known his biological father nor had a good relationdhip with his mother and he has been incarcerated. I, too, never had competant parents who knew how to raise me. I love God more than anything in this world and I know God has given me a gift of discernment as of many other talents and gifts. Even though my ex-fiance isn't right and we are not together I still feel spiritually connected to him. I know Satan's voice.
I promise that I honestly know he loves me and I love him. What's wrong with this picture? I also have prayed to my Father in heaven about his will for my life and to remove what is not his will for my life, but it still seems like God is telling me something.
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Dear Lakestra,
Continue to humble yourself before God. It gets results, the answers to our needs, especially when we don't know enough of the Word of God to take control of Satan and his work.
God loves you so much. The way to love him back is to learn what's in his word, The Holy Bible. Reading and learning is how He gives us his knowledge for every situation in life. His word is the standard to measure the situation by and the knowledge of how to change that situation for the good. When we know the Word and obey it the Holy Spirit has the freedom to teach us. Otherwise, the cares of the world speak louder in our heart than the voice of the Lord and we continue in the problem that satanic influences put us in.
As you dedicate yourself to researching the things of God, He will honor your prayers for reaching your children's father for His Kingdom. It's God's desire that everyone should be saved and that families be together. Go to my resource page and begin to seek Jesus with all your heart and allow God to miraculously change your life. Don't let anyone get in the way of your fight for the joy and peace that God will bring into your life. If possible get your boyfriend to grow with you in spite of what his family wants.
I have seen a situation just like yours developing over the last year and now the couple have planned a beautiful wedding for next month and their child is growing and learning about Jesus in the nursery at church. It's so wonderful what God can do if we just give ourselves completely to Him.
Under all circumstances live according to these two scriptures and receive God's best for you and your children.
Philippians 4:8 Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable, if anything is excellent or praiseworthy, think about such things.
1 Thessalonians 5:16-22 Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus. Do not put out the Spirit's fire; do not treat prophecies with contempt. Test everything. Hold on to the good. Avoid every kind of evil.
Thanks for writing,
Cherie
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