In your husband's case, it could be that he has been in leadership so long that it seems impossible to deal with the circumstances that seem so overwhelming. It's embarrassing not to have answers for our own life when we have them for others. People never have all the answers; we are to get them from God daily. He has all the answers for everyone and everything and is eager to share them with us. Many times in helping others we say or do something that we really don't know much about. It's important that we recognize those times, ask God about them and research those areas. The Holy Spirit will then teach us. During those times people have a tendency to look at us and believe we know everything. They forget that we are learning new things just like they are. If we aren't careful and keep our humility before God, as well as in the presence of others, their attitude of a inflated expectation and even appreciation toward us can be damaging, especially to one who is in a place of authority and trying to meet the expectations of others in order to help people.

Humility is the most important asset a Christian can produce. It comes from the attitude in one's own heart. There is directs correlation between humility and the amount of victorious living we experience, mainly because one of Satan's greatest tools to destroy people is human pride. Humility toward others keeps us in good standing with God and increases the flow of miracle power into our lives.

Philippians 2:3 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves.

Titus 3:2 to slander no one, to be peaceable and considerate, and to show true humility toward all men.

1 Peter 5:5 Young men, in the same way be submissive to those who are older. All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because, "God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble."

You can't be humble before God is you are unable to be humble before all people. Humility takes practice because it goes against the sinful nature we were all born with. Many pastor's and teachers have fallen because pride took them over when others praised them so highly. A wise person will recognize their limited knowledge, in the light of God's vast knowledge, and pray for the Holy Spirit to give them understanding and depth on any subject that should cross their path. Then always remember who you were before GOD grace gave you that knowledge.

Romans 12:3 For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you.

Proverbs 11:2 When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.

Proverbs 16:18 Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.

When we miss the leadership of our Lord either because of ignorance or disobedience we must pick ourselves up, ask for forgiveness and seek God's truth about our situation, even if it hurts. Our greatest comfort is in knowing God is still working on us as individuals. All we have to do is stand firm in the faith we already have, while believing He will teach us more as we press in close to Him. Then we will have the answers we need for our lives. No one, not even the greatest preachers or teachers, is exempt from living by faith in their own personal life. We all must examine our lives in the light of the scriptures and continually make adjustments that please God.

A person can preach or teach about God's great faith without using it for him or herself. If a person doesn't use it then God is not responsible for applying the promises in their life to that area. He is responsible to the hearer of His word, if they choose to believe. He is not responsible to the speaker of his Word when they don't apply faith concerning those words to their life.

Faith in the word of God gets you the things you don't yet have, things that are covenant promises. Faith (believing what the Word says and acting upon it) also allows the Fruit of the Spirit to increase. It's hard sometimes to make corrections in our own lives. Even the great giants of the gospel are always learning and changing to please God; that's how they became great giants.

Spend time helping your husband, especially with the scriptures that reveal who he is in Christ, seek God with him.

If he criticizes you, recognize it is Satan trying to hold on to him. The man you see and knew before the torment took him over still loves you, so be loving and explain you have such a desire to ease his pain and are searching for new places to help. Assure him that it is for both of you because you are one in the Lord. Ask his forgiveness if you hurt his feelings and keep on trying! Never give up!

You ask, "Why is my husband like this if he has been with the Lord all of these years?" The fact that a person has been with the Lord a long time or short doesn't effect the severity of an attack that Satan uses to destroy a person's life. He studies us continually. Satan knows just where to attack and how hard to hit in order to cause the most damage. If we let him get his foot in the door, so to speak, we have to work harder to get him out. We need to learn to stop him immediately the same way Jesus did when He fasted 40 days and nights, with the Word. Jesus didn't let Satan talk or persuade him like Eve did in the garden. Even in His weakened condition from fasting he used the Word with authority and Satan had to bow. When we are in a weakened condition of any type, stress, not enough sleep, hungry, someone else causing trouble etc., even on a daily basis like after working long hours and we're just tired, Satan moves in to take advantage. He might hit us with something small like symptoms of a cold or he could be planning something really big. It's so much easier to stop him at the beginning than wait till he takes over. After all who wants a cold for 10 days when we can stop it in a few hours. Satan is the king of bullies, he has no authority over one of God's children if we don't allow it. My favorite phrase to use when he attacks is, "I don't have to have this, I rebuke you in the name of Jesus." It works even when asleep if he attacks with a bad dream or muscle spasm etc. It's amazing to me that we can use God's power even in our sleep.

1 Peter 5:8 Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.

We all have struggled with our security in the Lord at times. Your husband has simply forgotten how great God is and how much He loves him. His problem has to do more with the parable of the farmer sowing seeds than anything else because it deals with the choices he has made and is still making. As he reads this parable remind him he has the right to choose soil he is going to be. As we confess our choice we stretch our roots deeper into the good soil of God's purpose for our lives.

Mark 4:2-8 Parable of the "Ground for Sowing of Seed "

He (Jesus) taught them many things by parables, and in his teaching said: "Listen! A farmer went out to sow his seed.

As he was scattering the seed, some fell along the path, and the birds came and ate it up.

Some fell on rocky places, where it did not have much soil. It sprang up quickly, because the soil was shallow. But when the sun came up, the plants were scorched, and they withered because they had no root.

Other seed fell among thorns, which grew up and choked the plants, so that they did not bear grain.

Still other seed fell on good soil. It came up, grew and produced a crop, multiplying thirty, sixty, or even a hundred times."

Mark 4:14-20 Meaning to the Parable of the "Ground for Sowing Seed"

The farmer sows the word.

Some people are like seed along the path, where the word is sown. As soon as they hear it, Satan comes and takes away the word that was sown in them.

Others, like seed sown on rocky places, hear the word and at once receive it with joy. But since they have no root, they last only a short time. When trouble or persecution comes because of the word, they quickly fall away.

Still others, like seed sown among thorns, hear the word; but the worries of this life, the deceitfulness of wealth and the desires for other things come in and choke the word, making it unfruitful.

Others, like seed sown on good soil, hear the word, accept it, and produce a crop, thirty, sixty or even a hundred times what was sown."

Now is the time for making a verbal confession of which type of ground for God's seed you are going to be. I like to make confessions as I listen to the Word on CDs daily. Being in agreement with what God says gives me so much strength.

These scriptures about the different types of soil are not just for sinners or young Christians, as many believe, but throughout our Christian walk we are always receiving seeds from God through his word and from the leadership of the Holy Spirit, as well as from others in the body of Christ. Because God has given each person "freedom of choice" we must make a conscious decision to accept those seeds, nurture them, and receive them into our heart confessing them as ours. As those seeds grow, we become rooted and grounded in the perfect will of God for our life and those tiny seeds will eventually produce a crop in accordance with God's miraculous increase. The Bible is full of seeds for every area of our lives, social, physical, mental, financial, material etc. God has a plan of victory in his Word for every area. They start with a seed or truth, such as in our finances, we are told to tithe 10% of our income. Some people stumble of whether it should be net or gross. Ask yourself a simple question, which amount do you want His blessing for tithing to be based on. Since God is richer than anyone can imagine and he has promised me certain blessings if I tithe, then I want it on the gross so my return will be bigger. When your return is miraculous the bigger is better.

You can help your husband but if he doesn't want to take an active role in his deliverance, you alone will alone, will have a heavy burden and his deliverance will be very slow. For immediate relief to get started your husband should humble himself before God and repent of his wrong thinking, lack of trust in God's ability to deliver him in the beginning of all this, anger, wrong words and any other thing that may be between him and his Lord. If you have had wrong thinking, words, feelings or lack in any area concerning this problem repent with him. It'll be a new beginning for both of you together in the Lord. It's a great feeling to wipe the slate clean with the Lord after we experience trouble.

Then your husband should immediately get out his concordance and research all the scriptures that re-affirms just who he is in the body of Christ and the total prosperity that the position gives. Next he should find all the financial scriptures that deal with tithing and seed offerings and begin to make adjustments that will change his financial situation. Then he needs to read some of the healing scriptures where Jesus healed "Them All" because The Lord is the same today as he was then. If he still is lacking in faith the Bible gives us the option of imitating those who have faith until our faith grows strong.

Hebrews 13:7- 8 Remember your leaders, who spoke the word of God to you. (Start with Paul's writings, his trials and victories.) Consider the outcome of their way of life and imitate their faith. Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.

If a person has enough strength to imitate faith then they have enough faith that will bloom into something God will respond to. Help your husband do this because he may not have enough strength or clarity of mind to help himself at this time. Use the strength of God to sustain you through this time so you don't wear yourself out. Here's how:

Philippians 4:12-13 I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him who gives me strength.

1 Peter 4:11 If anyone speaks, he should do it as one speaking the very words of God. If anyone serves, he should do it with the strength God provides, so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ.

Your husband has received and sown too many great spiritual seeds over his 30 years, as God's precious child, to throw them all away because someone took advantage of him. Faith that moves mountains doesn't have to be huge. It can be very small but it has to be firmly established in our heart. So help him to rise up and walk in the footsteps of Jesus again.

Here are some things that build my faith when in battle against Satan's trials. I hope they help you in the same way.

I think about all of us children God has around the world and how much He is doing for them, yet he has time to notice me. He really does love each person who belongs to Him through his Son. He designs blessings for each one that fit their own individual personalities. He listens to ever prayer, sees every need, and watches their faith grow with great expectation of delivering all that He has promised.

Matthew 10:29-31 Are not two sparrows sold for a penny? Yet not one of them will fall to the ground apart from the will of your Father. And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. So don't be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows.

God is very much aware of the problems that you and your husband are facing and they are very small in the His eyes. Begin to look at them the way God see them. Trust him and watch the mountain that Satan has built around you disappear. First take control over any and all fear. Fear is Satan's biggest tool. Even just a little bit will contaminate your faith. He continually tries to use it on everyone. Jesus will be with you all the way and help you so talk to Him about each step to get wisdom. Learn as you go so you will be strong to help others. Look at your next few months as an opportunity for a really good faith project, which you already know will be victorious, as you experience the hand of God working for you. Although there will be tough times God will see you through.

We must believe what the Word says in spite of what our earthly senses tell us. We can never let our focus be on our problems, but keep it centered on what God says we can have through faith. Sometimes I like to establish where my problem started so I don't make the same mistake twice, but it's not always necessary. Keep your focus on what God will do for you and on His Word. Our circumstances are from the lies and destruction caused by Satan. If we stay focused on them it keeps us in his grasp.

You wrote, "If he doesn't get his relationship and faith with God in better condition then we can't expect anything, because of where he is at." I tend to believe he doesn't know how to get his faith relationship better with God because he has never been attack with this severity before. Maybe he has never had anyone teach him to use the scriptures or maybe his faith just needs a boost. It doesn't really matter he will regain all that he lost, just like Job did, if he wants to. Your job is to protect you husband at all costs during this time so some inconsiderate person doesn't deepen his situation. Sometimes friends and even other church members will see a person who is under attack and assume they have failed somewhere. Don't let anyone talk to him that way, remember how Job's friends spoke wrongly to Job and got into trouble with God. Lift your husband up at all times and let him know that he is not a failure. Never say anything to anyone or to him that is negative about his situation. God has no failures, he has children that are growing and need help. Your husband is like so many others, a victim of satanic oppression because Satan used another person to rob him. That person needs prayer as well as your husband. You say, "we can't expect anything because of where he's at." I disagree, you can expect every good thing that God has created for mankind, spiritually as well as physically and materially. You are Christ's disciple and you can carry the load for your husband at this time bringing him back into good standing with God. Then the two of you will go on to receive all the great things that the Lord has in store for you.

Don't allow him or yourself to say any negative confessions, they are a form of giving up and that's just what Satan wants. Never let these thoughts cross your minds again. They will take you deeper down a path of despair. Instead start confessing what you want, anything that will better your situation, as long as it's holy and acceptable to God. Think, act and speak strong! Let the strength of God carry you. Use God's faith as He does; calling things as God sees them, not as earthly fact that Satan has made.

Romans 4:16-17 Therefore, the promise comes by faith, so that it may be by grace and may be guaranteed to all Abraham's offspring, not only to those who are of the law but also to those who are of the faith of Abraham. (Which is any gentile who believes in Jesus) He is the father of us all. As it is written: "I have made you a father of many nations." He is our father in the sight of God, in whom he believed, the God who gives life to the dead and calls things that are not as though they were.

If we are to use God's faith, then by calling things as the Bible says it should be is the kind of faith that God honors. Hold God to His covenant promises as you speak and act in confidence through obedience to everything written in the Bible. He wants us to take our covenant authority as serious business. After all our covenant with God is written in the Blood of his Son. Speaking the His Word is the key to having great faith, the kind that moves mountains and accomplishes God's perfect will in our lives.

Proverbs 18:21 The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.

Start using confessions for the results that God's Word says you can have, such as a good marriage, a full life, abundant living (spiritually, physically and financially) speak about you business prospering again, that it is strong because God is looking after it and sending people to and will never fail. Now put a scripture to what you speak:

Proverbs 16:3 Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and your plans will succeed.

Next set goals for the near future expanding them later as you see the move of the Lord. If your goal is slower than expected don't fear God is moving. God listens to everything we say, but our rewards are based the good desires that come from faith in his promises.

Psalms 20:4 May he give you the desire of your heart and make all your plans succeed.

Psalms 21:1-2 O Lord, the king rejoices in your strength. How great is his joy in the victories you give! You have granted him the desire of his heart and have not withheld the request of his lips.

Psalms 37:4 Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart.

Confessing what God says is something that doesn't come easy because we've been taught to speak what we feel; so practice daily and repent if you say a negative. This really works and is the quickest way to come out of trouble.

Read how Solomon pleased God and received great blessings. In fact a whole kingdom was built and all who lived there were blessed because Solomon had a good desire in his heart.

2 Chronicles 1:11-12 God said to Solomon, "Since this is your heart's desire and you have not asked for wealth, riches or honor, nor for the death of your enemies, and since you have not asked for a long life but for wisdom and knowledge to govern my people over whom I have made you king, therefore wisdom and knowledge will be given you. And I will also give you wealth, riches and honor, such as no king who was before you ever had and none after you will have."

You and your husband have already accepted God's mission, to help others. So he will bless you the same as he did Solomon if you will only believe. You will come out of all this, miraculously in time. Stand strong in the testing of your faith. Talk about the knowledge you are gaining from the Word, the revelation and wisdom you're receiving, God is listening and will increase what you say.

The way I measure myself is by the Fruit of the Spirit. Because they are supernatural fruit they increase as our obedience and faith increases, they give us a gage to check the areas that we need to improve. When we received salvation the Fruit of the Spirit was established in our heart as seeds.

Galatians 5:22-23 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.

The Fruit in a person's heart grows more rapidly after receiving the fullness or baptism of the Holy Spirit because He teaches us how they are to be used in different situations. Love, the first fruit is the first to grow because of God's love that we experience through salvation. We must nurture it carefully! Without love toward all people the other Fruits will not have a foundation strong enough to support them in hard times. They will be unstable and not flow continuously in all situations. Joy and peace are the Fruit that grows for our own pleasure. They grow in direct correlation to the other Fruit concerning how we treat others. Using each fruit when opportunity arises will nurture them into their fullness. As we train ourselves to use these Fruits daily it pleases God and brings extra blessings into or lives. Much of our protection, from Satan's torment, trials and temptations come from producing an abundance of Fruit. We are told to:

2 Corinthians 13: 5 Examine yourselves to see whether you are in the faith; test yourselves...

God sees a married couple as one united spirit, able to accomplish together more than what each person can do alone. The two of you are one in spirit just as each person is one in spirit with Jesus, once they are born again. You just have a weak half at this time, not much different from how God views our weaknesses as the church. We are to help one-another. God sent the Holy Spirit to be our strength to bring us up to his standards for producing his heavenly plan here on earth.

Ephesians 2:4-10 But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions, it is by grace you have been saved. And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, ...For we are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.

God has brought you and your husband into a heavenly realm, in helping others. There are special blessing for that position. Satan, however want to make you fall from that position. Neither of you should let him interfere anymore. This is a time to pour the love of God on your husband, show him understanding, kindness and to do your best to encourage him to rise up and walk for the glory of God. I know he's willing in his heart and is trying or he wouldn't be involved in helping others. You have a great opportunity to do God's work right there in your own home.

You wrote that you think he's really angry with the Lord and doesn't believe the Word. I'm not so sure angry is the right word, as much as, disappointed or hurt because God didn't intervene to keep him out of this mess. This is not uncommon among Christians who go through overwhelming trials. An angry person doesn't spend time with the one they are angry with; you wrote that he does spend time with God and listens to music along with witnessing. I believe he is very injured by his past relationship and expected more help but didn't know how to receive it. Many pastors and teachers don't equip their people with the word to handle these types of severe challenges. Also Satan has probably poured guilt on him for this whole situation, when he's the guilty one from the start with his destructive ways. A person can only do what they know to do and I believe your husband didn't have the spiritual stamina or he would be in this condition now. Just because a person knows a lot about a certain area of God's work doesn't mean they know about everything. I've seen preachers who had great ministries in certain areas; God used them to help thousands of people and in turn people assumed the preacher knew about everything. In reality they knew very little about other areas that were just as important, such as raising children, training a congregation to become mature in the Lord and even basic leadership on how to worship. People in all walks of life come up lacking in different areas, no single person can do everything, that's why God distributed the gifts to different people,(1 Corinthians 12) so He would have experts in different fields. God is a God of mercy. He understands our weakness and failures and is so willing to help us when we humbly turn to Him and as forgiveness. If your husband is angry with God I'm sure you can persuade him that God loves him and his only hope is to run into the arms of Jesus and let Him comfort him. He's already putting forth an effort through listening to music. Help him to saturate his mind with the word; it's what will the quickest to bring him out.

Romans 12:2 Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is, his good, pleasing and perfect will.

Share this time with him in reading or listening to the Word on CDs, your presence and support will cause him to have a faster breakthrough. This is the scripture that drives me deeper into god's word daily, it's the key to the deep things of God.

3 John 1:2 Dear friend, I pray that you may enjoy good health and that all, even as your soul is getting along well.

Good health and all things going well in your life is the promise and feeding your soul the things of God is how you get those promises. I decided I wanted good health. I want things to go well in my life and with my family. So I refused to come up lacking in any area of life, therefore, I study the Word and continually listen to CDs and mp-3 of good teaching that is full of scripture so I can check it out. Then I am prepared for whatever comes my way and can help others too. I find that the things of God are so much better than the things of the world. I know that if I continue to fill my soul with God's goodness each day then God will bring me into his shelter, the secret hiding place of continual blessing.

Psalm 32:7 Thou art my hiding place; thou shalt preserve me from trouble; thou shalt compass me about with songs of deliverance. Selah.

Psalm 119:114 Thou art my hiding place and my shield: I hope in thy word.

Psalm 91 1 He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. (Read all of the 91st Psalm and receive what God has promised you.)

Prospering in one's soul, is the key to living well. The more of God's Word a person takes into their mind, allowing it drop into their soul through belief, confessing it to be their own value system for living, the better their life becomes. As we stand strong in obedience, automatic blessings pour out on us. Begin today to make a steady walk together in your studies of the Bible and never give up. Also spend time together worshiping over your tithes and seed offerings, according to the scriptures, as a cheerful giver and watch God move.

2 Corinthians 9:7 Each man should give what he has decided in his heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.

Philippians 4:6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. (Here's the promise for not being anxious and giving thanks.) And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Consistency, in thinking and speaking God's promises, is the major key to receiving the fullness of what God has promised.

You ask, "Why is he so consumed by the cares of this world and weighed down by all the worry, doubt and unbelief?" It's simple, your husband has forgotten his place in Christ, how much God loves him and the power of almighty God to deliver him in his time of need. If God can deliver him from sin don't you think it's an easy thing for Him to deliver him from this situation, finances and all?

You wonder, "Why can't he just believe and have faith and live a joyful life regardless of what happens?" At this time he doesn't really believe God will bring him out of all this or he would be shouting for joy. Maybe he hasn't been in a place to see much of how miraculous the hand of God is. His circumstances are unique, seek the Lord on just how to approach all of this. It's hard sometimes for people to rebuild their faith, especially when they are so severely attacked by Satan but you have the strength to lift him up so let your joy shine and he will soon follow.

You ask, "Why is the money and debt have him so down that he can't function." It could be because your husband is used to being the provider or not carrying too much debt, only he knows. Whatever it is it felt comfortable because he earned enough to meet the needs and now he has to give away some of what he earns to a cause that seems unfair to him. A lot of people look at only what they earn and are devastated when they feel they'll have to suffer financially. Even though they pay tithes and give in special offerings they don't know how God's financial system works. They deposit but aren't used to withdrawing from God's miraculous bank account, which holds so much more than their earthly bank account ever could. You will want to go to the link on finances at the bottom of this page.

You ask, "If this keeps up you wonder what will happen to your marriage?" I have given you some instructions to follow, now continually stand on the truth of God's Word and you will have a wonderful marriage. This short period of time is like a day in the time of eternity. Don't let it control your time her on earth or your eternal future. God wants your husband whole and strong again.

You wrote, "I do not want to live like this anymore, being separated from the Father in Heaven was not our agreement when he took the vows." You must have never read the scripture concerning how strong of a hold God has on you. You're the only one who can separate yourself from the Father. Nothing else can.

Romans 8:28-39 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. (fitting into His plan) For those God fore-knew he also predestined to be conformed to the likeness of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; (acquitted, made righteous, putting them into right standing with Himself) those he justified, he also glorified. (raising them to a heavenly dignity)

What, then, shall we say in response to this? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all, how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things? Who will bring any charge against those whom God has chosen? It is God who justifies. Who is he that condemns? Christ Jesus, who died, more than that, who was raised to life, is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us. Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? As it is written: "For your sake we face death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered." No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

You say that your husband is very well known you don't know what to do. Do we call Benny Hinn or someone to help him? You can seek the help of others, corporate prayer works, and it could boost his faith. It's up to him because he has to want deliverance. God delivers but we have to humble ourselves and want what He offers. There are people who go to someone for prayer but won't make the effort to change the way they think or act, then when they don't receive from God it actually hurts what faith they had. I would do all I could to raise his faith before going. A lot of times, especially for mature Christians, they need to prepare. Younger inexperienced Christians seem to receive easier. God expects more from us.

James 5:13-16 Is any one of you in trouble? He should pray. Is anyone happy? Let him sing songs of praise. Is any one of you sick? He should call the elders of the church to pray over him and anoint him with oil in the name of the Lord. And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise him up. If he has sinned, he will be forgiven. Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective.

Be strong for your husband and believe God for every detail of what you need. God loves you and will answer your prayers.

Galatians 6:9-10 Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.

You will want to take the time to read:

What Is Faith?

How To Keep Your Bank Account Full And Overflowing

2 Timothy 2: 15 Study to show thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.

For extra strength in learning how to handle your situation listen to healing, faith, and financial teaching on KCM's website. Gloria and Kenneth Copeland have so much for you to listen to that will strengthen your husband and encourage you. They have many other preachers and teacher that can help you also. You and your husband can learn together how to receive from God to bring the $100,000 debt to $0. There are so many scriptures that declare God's supply for our needs and even our desires. $100,000 isn't much in the eyes of God and when we line up with his word and His way of thinking money just seems to be there when we need it. Fear is your worst enemy, faith will get miracle power working for you. God has no intention for his children to ever be in bondage to this kind of debt. Learn to be sensitive to the Holy Spirit leadership concerning this debt and watch the miraculous hand of God supply your need. Start with Tools for Financial Success Then look for other material for growth on KCM Home Page under Media BVOV Webcasts.

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Greetings, my husband is a very gifted man, and has been a believer for over 30 yrs. We recently got married and his past was devastating to him, plus he is in debt now close to $100,000 because of this woman, and will owe her for the rest of his life. It seems to be the case, that it's his fault for allowing this, he did not fight it because he was under duress at the time.

When we got married he was ready and through the fruits of his relationship with the Lord, it seemed great. It seems that within four months of the marriage we began to fall a part, remember the debt only grew bigger, the business is starting to decrease. He has been suffering emotionally. His relationship with God is becoming almost shipwrecked, there is a hardness of heart, our marriage is not doing very well etc. I am told by him that I'm a gem and a very good woman and wife, and that I have so much faith and energy, and that I'm very generous always helping others. That my love for him is remarkable and he can see that he is not leading this family at all and his heart is hardened toward God. He is lacking faith, he has symptoms like depression even though I do not believe that is what it is, and he refuses to get a medical checkup. He looks terrible, and I feel like his nurse, he reminds me of a 90 yr. old man in a nursing home. The only energy he has is when he is in God's presence, or ministering to others because we have a ministry, he can help others but yet can't function other than work, witnessing and spending time musically with the Lord, or in His presence.

Our love relationship is depleted and there is very little feeling I receive from him. We have a home group right now and the person that is leading is extremely knowledgeable with the Word, he knows many people famous and not famous in the Lord. My question is why is my husband like this if he has been with the Lord all of these years? If he doesn't get his relationship and faith with God better, I can say then we can't expect anything because of where he is at. I tend to think that he is really angry with the Lord and he does not believe the Word. How can this be? Why is he so consumed by the cares of this world and weighed down by all the worry, doubt and unbelief? Why cant he just believe, have faith and live a joyful life regardless of what happens? Why is the money and debt have him so down that he can't function; yet he can minister to others? If this keeps up I'm wondering what will happen to the marriage, please help? I do not want to live like this anymore. Being separated from the Father in Heaven was not our agreement when he took the vows. My husband is also very well known and I do not know what to do. Do we call Benny Hinn or someone to help him? Please is there an answer? Thank you so much and God Bless you always. Jesus is the only truth in my life, Amen.