I am praying for you and your family. You asked, "Can God really heal all this?" The answer is absolutely yes; but your husband has to want to be delivered. You can start by seeing if he'll get a restraining order against her. In fact see if he can get it for the whole family since she has been charged before. He should want his family protected. If he refuses then I would believe he's not really finished with her nor is his confession of Christianity for real. A true Christian will not allow someone to interfer with his family life because God places great importance on the family structure. It's where His strength is for every situation in a married couples life.

I find people do exactly what they want to do, especially when they know what they shouldn't do. If this woman is bothering him then a restraining order should be something your husband should welcome and make every effort to enforce. If she comes near you then you enforce it immediately.

Next, is he reading or listening to the Bible? He'll never get enough of God to change his heart if he doesn't. Get the Bible on CD and put it on daily whether he's listening or not. Get your home and car filled with the Spirit of the Lord and it will affect his spirit.

Are you going to a church that really believes in deliverance and miracle power? If not find one that does. The church you choose is the most important decision you'll ever make. We need miracle power working in our lives daily to keep our families from the temptations of the evils that exist in our society.

Begin to saturate your life and your home in the good things of God and use all your love and strength to involve your husband. Pull him toward God and forget the past. What you feed him spiritually is what he will end up being.

You asked if it was God or Satan speaking to you when you decided to stop in to see him at his office. It really doesn't matter who's voice it was but what you did about the situation. Did you confront her. I probably would have. If it's true what your husband said about his recent relationship with her, he wouldn't have minded and would have welcomed you presence.

Many years ago I simply told a woman, who was chasing a friend's husband, that she would have a law suit brought against her if she saw him one more time or even called him. I would personally see to it that it would be in the news; all about her past and everything she was doing to my friend's family. I was old enough to be her grandmother so maybe she thought I would. I let her know that God loved her but didn't like the sin she was evolved in and that she should pray about her life. Anyway, she never contacted him again.

Christians aren't to let someone move in and break up their home. You have rights in the Kingdom of God as well as legal rights. You should find out what legal means are available to you if you need them. There are places to get answers that doesn't cost or has little cost.

Talk to your husband by being strong minded, tender hearted and lead him out of sin. Giving him what the Bible says will build faith in him to do things God's way. Just talking to him or pleading with him won't change him.

Be the kind of woman that pleases God. It's the best way to get Him to move for your husband so he will prefer you above all other women.

Below are some resources that will help you find what you need to serve your family the riches of God.

God's Anointing On TV And The Internet

How To Find The Right Church

Where To Get The Bible You Need

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