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My husband of 11 years, has apparently been cheating on me with online relationships with women. He was particularly interested, I think, with one that got married and left. He is also addicted to pornography. All along he used to accuse me of being unfaithful, and I was always so hurt, that I would never question him, until it has now come to a point where we are both separated.
I had to report his abuse at the police. But he is now acting like he does not want to live with me anymore because I sought the help of the law... but even at this time as I sit back and think, I realize how he'd been indulging in shifting blame and I had been such a sucker.
But I still love him and wish everything would rewind and go back to being good. I wish I would never have to suspect him, and be relaxed... How do I pray...what should I do... I think he is actually not interested in me, or in staying married to me... should I leave him, instead of clinging on to him.... I feel helpless please pray.
A
The most important sentence you said was, "But I still love him and wish everything would rewind and go back to being good." Your life together can be better than ever before if you forget everything in the past and go to him with a stretched out hand and help him. He's possessed with lustful spirits and they drive him. He lets them, but they are the one's in control. A person is never happy being pushed in sin like he is; so help him by taking charge of your marriage. Wouldn't you help him if he had cancer or became blind? Well, he is blind to the miracle delivering power of God. Begin to read the Bible in your home and get it on tape or CD and play it every day. If you don't have the right tools you won't grow in the Lord to find peace and joy like the Bible promises. Read my article on Where To Get The Bible You Need.
Find a good church and get him to go with you. Read my article How To Find The Right Church
Find good programing on TV to watch with him God's Anointing On TV And The Internet
Don't waste a minute longer allowing Satan to take your husband away from you. He will end up in hell someday. You don't want to think of him in an eternal hell without you at least trying to help him.
You ask how do you pray. Ask God to deliver him and confess God's word over him. Take him to our Salvation Prayer Page and pray with him. Be pushy but extremely loving and understanding. Don't allow yourself to be hurt by anything he says. It's most likely demons who speak through him at this point and they will want to stop anything your are doing to get him delivered from their bondage.
Luke 6:45 The good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For out of the overflow of his heart his mouth speaks.
Get him to God anyway you can then you will be able to trust him. The two of you will be able to rebuild your marriage and be happy.
Jude 1: 22-23 Be merciful to those who doubt; snatch others from the fire and save them; to others show mercy, mixed with fear, hating even the clothing stained by corrupted flesh.
It may take a while before he is willing to follow you completely but be persistent and watch for changes that reflect God at work in his mind and heart.
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