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I need your help. Last week my husband decided he did not want to be married anymore and wanted to live life as a single adult. I do not want to let go of our marriage and give up on him. I have been praying for strength from God and asking him to help my husband. I do free lost and displace without my husband. I am leaning on everyone and wanting them to provide hope. I know God has a plan but I need confirmation that a marriage can be saved. He has not shown any signs of wanting to work this out. Before he left, he had been spending a lot of time with his single guy friends and coming/going as he pleased. (I am 27 and he is 25 ) He saw this behavior was hurting me so his answer was to leave the marriage instead of working it out with me. Please help me to find hope. I will keep praying.
Thank you so much!
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Get yourself into the position with God where He will answer your prayers quickly. Pray, read your bible as much as you can, get into a good church where you can get results from God.
Your personal time needs to be spent in the arms of the Lord, so you can be comforted by him, rather than by friends and outsiders. True joy comes only from the Lord, and in Him you will find strength and the answers that you need to reach your husband for the Lord and rebuild your family.
It's not impossible for God to rebuild your marriage, but it will take dedication, perseverance, and all the strength you have. Be extremely loving towards your husband every time you talk to him. Show him that God has changed your life and give him a reason to come back.
My prayers are with you and I'm hoping for the best.