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My husband moved out and into the home of another woman that he only knew for about a month. He says he loves her and wants to be with her. We have 8 children and 13 grandchildren. He took all the toys he had accumulated during our marriage, truck, horses, horse trailer, boats, and motorcycles. He refuses to talk to me. Will not give me any explanation as to why, will not give me any financial help. We owe around 70,000.00 for his toys. He says it's too late for us; and has filed for a divorce. I don't want a divorce how can I win him back. I don't believe it's ever too late. Is there any hope that he will come to his senses and come home and be a good father and husband? I can forgive him and take him back. I know God will answer prayers, I want my family back.
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I'm sorry to hear that your husband has left. There's no quick-fix for getting him back, but God will move for you through prayer and seeking him first. He is your comforter. He loves you and He is very concerned about your situation and the effect it's having on you and your children. Start by reading the articles below. Draw from them God's knowledge and apply it to your life. The Bible says we receive faith prosper in every area of our lives as our soul fills up with the word of God so read as much in your Bible as you can each day. Start in the New Testament and watch the miracle power that God releases into your life. 3John 1:2 Dear friend, I pray that you may enjoy good health and that all may go well with you, even as your soul is getting along well.
Get your family to support you by reading and praying also. Stay totally in faith, speaking only good things and the results that you desire, praising and worshipping God. He will hear and respond to your worship and you won't be saying anything that Satan can use against you that will block your prayers. Whatever you do don't let your mind dwell on the problem it will stop God's miracle power from working and allows Satan to lead you into depression. Keep your mind totally centered on God and what he is doing because he promises to do his best for us when we use His kind of faith. The Bible tells us we can never walk by feelings but to live by what the Word says. The right feelings come from thinking, saying and doing what's in the Word. This is one of the hardest things to do as a Christian but it brings the best and fastest results. God has repaired many families who have used this method because he responds to faith. If you can stay in contact with your husband be positive and show him that you have God's goodness working for you. If you don't go to church find one and go as often as you can. God honors every effort you make and adds goodness to your life. We are praying for you and hoping for the very best.
If you are not saved go to our Salvation Page and pray from your heart so God can move in a covenant relationship way for you with all his promises.
If you don't have a good church please go to my article on How To Find The Right Church .
You may also want to read my series How To Solve Problems Using God's Power.