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I have been with my son's father for almost 4 years now off and on
Submitted by J
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I am a 25 year old female and I have been with my son's father for almost 4 years now off and on, we currently got married a month ago. I just can't seem to trust him he has cheated on me several times with several women, since we have been married he has not cheated on me but I fear that he will do it again.

He admitted he had a problem with not being able to be faithful, he tells me that he takes are marriage serious and says he will not cheat on me again. I don't know what to do should I believe him, I want our marriage to work, and my husband and child are my world. Am I wrong for having all these bad thoughts?
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Absolutely believe him with all your heart. Appreciate him and let him know it. He's yours for a lifetime now according to the scriptures and you must think, speak and act just as the scriptures say to do. That will keep Satan from using your words to wedge his evil works between the two of you ever again. The things you are feeling, lack of trust, fear, insecurity and worry are Satan's way of dividing marriages because marriage is God's way of living and doing things his righteous way. You husband has done a good, godly thing by making you his wife and taking responsibility for his child. So love your husband as though he is a gift from God and seek God for him because Satan will hang around and try to capture him again. Pray for his strength in the Lord and try to get Christian music and biblical material such as sermons or the Bible on CDs into your home. The more of God a family has the stronger their relationship is. The mind of a person is where Satan attacks so keep the mind of each person in your family filled with the good things of the Lord and you will enjoy those cherished relationships for all eternity.

Philippians 4:8-9 Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me--put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.

It wasn't your husband's idea to cheat on you but the spirit of lust that he allowed to take him over. Satan wanted to wrap him so tight in sin that he would never get out and destroy you and your child at the same time.

1Corinthians 6:18-20 Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body.

When you said your husband admitted he had a problem of faithfulness that's because those demons of lust controlled him. A person can only hold demon power back a small amount. Without Jesus in their heart that demon will eventually get his way and push that person to act out Satan's thought that are pounding in their mind. Satan needs a person to act on the thought because the action is the sin that separates us from God.

Satan wanted to destroy your husband completely but he is struggling to do things God's way even though he may not know God. So please help him! He loves you or he wouldn't have married you. It's the lust you have to keep out of your house and the only way to keep Satan's works out of your home is to bring Jesus in. Talk to your husband about building your family together in the goodness and the blessings of the Lord. If either of you have not given your heart to the Lord then go to my Salvation Page and start a new beginning cleansed of all sin. Then you will be in the position for God to pour out his great blessings on your lives. Whatever it takes to stay close to Jesus, choose the blessing of the Lord over the disasters of Satan. Jesus is Lord over everything and Satan can only use a person as much as that person will allow.

3John 1:2 Dear friend, I pray that you may enjoy good health and that all may go well with you, even as your soul is getting along well.

Prosperity in every area of your life comes according to how much your soul prospers. A person's soul prospers when the knowledge of God becomes part of that person's life. Read your Bible a little each day and pray together. Worship together over the giving of your tithes (first fruits are 10% of your gross income) given before anything else is taken out. Then God will materially and financially bless you. Find a good church if you don't have one. You may want to read my article How To Find The Right Church. God loves you both so much and is always eager to help you.





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