There isn't much you can do to work on the relationship with your boyfriend at this time. Don't "nag" at him but stay in touch. Be as pleasant and fun loving as you possibly can. Let him see a different person; one that he would like to get to know all over again. This won't be easy with a broken heart but pray for strength and God will help you. Never speak anything bad about him to your children or to anyone else. The Spirit of God works through love, so be loving.

God is the only one who sees and knows everything. The Holy Spirit needs to handle this situation because He searches all things.

1Corinthians 2:10-11...The Spirit searches all things, even the deep things of God. For who among men knows the thoughts of a man except the man's spirit within him? In the same way no one knows the thoughts of God except the Spirit of God.

The Holy Spirit will search the heart of your boyfriend and He already knows the heart of God. If something can be done to save this relationship He will know how to do it. Anytime there are children involved in a relationship, God does all he can to repair that family. After all, God sent his Son to die that we could be saved and families could be made whole. God's power fixes broken hearts.

You must remember, though, that God created each of us with a free will to make our own choices. So when we make the wrong choice by not including God in our relationships, we pay a high price. Your boyfriend will still have that free will to choose. However, I am going to stand with you and choose to believe God will repair your relationship; and soon you will be writing to send me a wedding invitation. God is good, and wants the best in life for people.

The thing for you to do at this point is to throw yourself in the arms of Jesus, and stay there. This will keep the Holy Spirit activate, working on your situation. He has great love for you. If you have not repented of your sins, go to my Salvation Prayer Page and read the prayer from your heart. Then, just talk to the Lord in your own words. He loves you so much, so allow his love to fill your heart and hopefully your boyfriend will respond to the change in you. Begin reading your Bible. I like the NIV version because it's easier to understand and the Amplified version can give you more understanding. You can get to it on the Internet at www.biblegateway.com. Read or listen to the New Testament on CD three or four times before attempting the Old Testament.

If you don't have a church, find one now. Go every week if possible and take your children. Your boyfriend will see the change in his children. We always look for a Church of God or Assembly of God. They believe in the infilling of the Holy Spirit as it is described in the Book of Acts, with the initial evidence of speaking in tongues. If you're not familiar with this, don't be afraid, it's worshiping God in His language and Jesus commanded everyone to receive the fullness of the Spirit. (Acts 1:1-7)

Look on the Internet and find a church that is growing and alive with the Spirit so the teaching and worship will lift your spirits and receive the blessing of God. Jesus said the Holy Spirit will be your comforter and teacher; and you need both at this time. It will be easier for the Holy Spirit to change his heart if he has an example to look at; so be a good representative for the Lord.

Within the next week I should be putting a new article on Love's Answer that should help you very much. I will probably put it up in parts because I'm not completely finished with it but many people like you have written and need the scriptures that it contains. It's titled How To Solve Problems Using God's Power.