I'm so glad you wrote. There are three articles that you should read explaining God's kind of love and the kind of love the world offers. When we give love to others, using God's truth and the standards He set, it creates bonded relationships that leave people fulfilled and secure in their personal lives. Those articles are found here. Pray before you read them that God will open your heart to His true love and that He will send people into your life who will respond to what you have learned. May God truly bless you.

I'm glad you wrote. So many people don't know what real love is. They want the type of love with a partner that will last forever, but don't know how to get it because the people they see or know are not experiencing long term, happy relationships. God is love and real love comes from him. When we are living in God's great love through salvation we are taught by the Holy Spirit how to give real love to others; thus creating great relationships. If you're not born again so the Holy Spirit can teach you how to love then go to our prayer page and give your heart to the Lord. Then you will not only learn how to love but the Lord will lead you to the right person to give your love to. To learn more about love read these articles:

Love That Builds Great Relationships

Lust, What Does God Say About It?

Lust and God's Wrath Against Mankind

Continue to ask for God's guidance. If she is the one for you God will bring everything about in the right time. Pray about your fear and ask God to remove it because fear never comes from God. Be sure that your relationship with this woman proceeds in a goldy way according to the scriptures and that you both put Jesus first in your relationship. Start your dating by inviting her to church activities and God will bless you. If she isn't God's choice for you she will not want to attend and you will be released from the dream that you had. Thanks for writing

The answer to your question, can you get the Holy Spirit back into your life again, is absolutely yes.

God never takes his Holy Spirit back from a person. It's a person's desire and actions that keeps the Holy Spirit from working in their life.

According to the scriptures God sent his Holy Spirit (the third person in the Trinity, Matthew 28:18-19) to the earth on the Day of Pentecost (Acts 2:1-21) to work drawing people closer to Him. The Holy Spirit is everywhere doing the will of God. He hasn't gone anywhere; you're just not in contact with him through the power of salvation in Jesus Christ. However, He is drawing you now or you wouldn't have asked your question.

God has given each individual freedom to choose, therefore, we sever our own relationship with God when we choose the path that Satan plants in our mind. Training our mind by reading and meditating on the scripture keeps it busy and unavailable for Satan's temptations.

It's the Holy Spirit that brings a person into a place of conviction that leads to salvation or correction. 

Don't fall prey to man's condemnation, which makes you feel wrong with little self-worth and no hope for anything better. That's not of God. He loves you dearly. Every person is unique and He puts great value on the individuality that each one brings to his family. When we do wrong the Holy Spirit convicts us for the purpose of drawing us back into God's kingdom; not to condemn us but to save us.

God wants us to leave our life of sin and shame and walk in His freedom of truth and righteousness. You must believe that you are special in God's eyes and return to him quickly by going to our Salvation Prayer page and rededicating your life to Jesus.

Then draw close to God through water baptism, taking communion and seeking the in-filling of the Holy Spirit (as in the Book of Acts) so that you will receive God's power. His power will give you the strength to withstand the temptations of this world and to be a good witness.

Read the Word daily, praying for knowledge and wisdom. Believe what it says and be obedient to the instructions you find. The Holy Spirit will help you turn your life around if you take the first steps. I find that just reading a scripture and verbally agreeing with it activates God's help and makes the change easier.

By the questions so many people have asked, I assume they think I might use psychic powers or astrology to see into their future. No, I can't see into anyone's future, not even my own. The Bible does set standards for all people to follow and that's where I get the knowledge to help those who write to improve their situation. I give God all the glory if someone has been helped. When we obey the scriptures, God richly blesses us and reveals some of the goodness that's in store for our future. That's the future I would like to see come true for everyone, especially those who took the time to write to me. Psalm 37:4 Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart.

When people don't know about God's great love for them they aren't aware of the good things in the Bible they can have; nor do they learn how to receive his supernatural help when they need it. Therefore, they lack the things they need to be happy. Even if a person is prosperous in the financial area of their life they can be lacking in other areas such as relationships, joy, contentment, health, security etc. To be prosperous in every area of a person's life it takes the knowledge of God and the wisdom to use it. He examines everyone eagerly to find good in them so he can pour out blessings that he's been holding for each individual. When He examines us and finds his word working in us it pleases him then in return He blesses us according to his word. There are so many good things God has on earth for us to enjoy when we live according to his rules. But when we are lacking in his word we follow a lifestyle that hinders or stops the blessing of God from flowing into our lives.

Proverbs 5:21-23 For a man's ways are in full view of the Lord, and he examines all his paths. The evil deeds of a wicked man ensnare him; the cords of his sin hold him fast. He will die for lack of discipline, led astray by his own great folly.

Salvation through repentance starts a person in a direction that brings God's supernatural blessings into our lives. We receive his power of deliverance for every situation in life plus the promise of eternal life in heaven for our spirit and soul after the body dies.

When Jesus died for our sins his blood allowed God to cover our sins and see us as sinless:

Isaiah 1:18 "Come now, let us reason together, "says the Lord. " Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red as crimson, they shall be like wool"

Accepting Jesus as our personal savior creates a covenant relationship with God; a binding contract or agreement which gives us so many good promises straight from God's heart. Since God never changes his word will never change; therefore, his promises are for everyone that will recognize the value of what He has said.

Hebrew 13:7-8 Remember your leaders, who spoke the word of God to you. Consider the outcome of their way of life and imitate their faith. Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.

God set the standard for the covenant and then had both, our part and His part, written in the Bible for us to follow. Then He supernaturally kept his hand on that word for centuries so all people could learn His ways and would receive his blessings. Because people were weak in keeping their part of the covenant God sent the Holy Spirit to earth to strengthen us and teach us how to please Him. He continually works with people drawing them closer to him that his blessings will be manifested (apparent or obvious) in our lives.

2Peter 1:20-21 Above all, you must understand that no prophecy of Scripture came about by the prophet's own interpretation. For prophecy never had its origin in the will of man, but men spoke from God as they were carried along by the Holy Spirit .

If you're not sure what God's blessing are, they are anything that gives happiness or prevents misfortune in your life; special benefits and favor. They are anything good in life that will bring increase to you in all areas of your living. You receive favor in buying or selling, in receiving gifts or promotions, where you live and how you live; in your health and long life etc. God's blessings and deliverances rescue you from the burdens that you can't change and strengthens or renews you for future situations that you may need to resolve. God's blesses his people in ways that will benefit every area of a person's life because he is interested in the whole person and has planed great things for each individual if they will only follow his instruction on how to receive.

God's word is for all people, just as Jesus died for the sins of all people. There are blessings and rewards for behaving as God wants, as well as punishment and terror for not obeying his commands. He made the rules and Jesus died for those rules; therefore God has the right to carry out the judgment for each person whether it's blessings for doing good or punishment for ignoring or disobeying his Word.

When a person is out of God's will, which is set forth in the scriptures, then Satan controls much of that person's life. He works by producing fear in all kinds of situations, and robbing people of mental, physical and material blessings as well as spiritual blessings. Satan even works to affect those around that person because he lies and steals from everyone he can. When people give themselves over to believing in his evil works, such as psychic powers, astrology, magic etc., then Satan uses that person as his instrument to destroy everyone that person loves or comes in contact with. God hates the works of Satan but he loves people so very much. He wants everyone to learn and grow in his ways and in the blessing he has put here on earth for them. Many times he waits years just for the right moment that the Holy Spirit will have success in drawing someone into the arms of the Lord.

2Peter 3:8-10 But do not forget this one thing, dear friends: With the Lord a day is like a thousand years, and a thousand years are like a day. 9 The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance. But the day of the Lord will come like a thief. The heavens will disappear with a roar; the elements will be destroyed by fire, and the earth and everything in it will be laid bare.

If you believe in or have used the powers of Satan please take the time to read my article God's Power and Satan's Counterfeit. God loves you so very much and wants you in a position to bless you and make your life fresh and new. God will open your mind and heart to his wonderful truths and deliverance can be yours. So go to my Salvation Prayer page and pray this simple prayer. I wish the very best to you for your future.